To tell or not: parental thoughts on disclosure of urologic surgery to their child

Int Braz J Urol. 2015 May-Jun;41(3):562-8. doi: 10.1590/S1677-5538.IBJU.2014.0164.

Abstract

Purpose: Literature pertaining to surgical disclosure to the pediatric patient is lacking. We hypothesized parents would find it difficult to disclose urologic surgery to a child.

Materials and methods: Parents of patients <5 years old undergoing urologic surgery were contacted for telephone survey. Parents were asked about future plans of surgical disclosure, comfort with disclosure, and any support received.

Results: 98 parents consented to study participation. 87% of surgeries were on the genitalia with 62% being minor genitalia surgery (i.e. circumcision). 70% of parents would tell their child about minor genital surgery while 84% would tell about major genital surgery (p=0.07). 4 of 20 parents of children undergoing hypospadias repair (major genital surgery) did not plan to tell their child about surgery. All parents of children undergoing non-genital surgery would tell. Of all parents planning to tell their children about surgery, only 14% were nervous. 34% of parents would find guidance in talking to their child helpful despite the majority (90%) stating no guidance had ever been provided.

Conclusions: Parents seem comfortable discussing urologic surgeries with a child but about 1/3 would appreciate further counseling. 20% of parents of children undergoing hypospadias repair hope to avoid telling their child.

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • Age Factors
  • Child
  • Child, Preschool
  • Decision Making
  • Disclosure / statistics & numerical data*
  • Female
  • Genitalia / surgery*
  • Humans
  • Interviews as Topic
  • Male
  • Parent-Child Relations*
  • Sex Factors
  • Surveys and Questionnaires
  • Urologic Surgical Procedures / psychology*